It is meaningless for a wife to battle her cheating husband and his side chick since, after adulterous coitus, the man’s phallus remains intact for the wife to enjoy as long as it is not plucked away by the other woman, according to marriage counselor Juliana Antwi Asante.
According to the President of Marriage Scaffold, women should confront unfaithful spouses and the circumstances surrounding such situations with knowledge, maturity, and tact rather than arguing.
“So you go to see your spouse on top of a lady and start arguing? If you bring this to me as a counselor, I’ll tell you there’s no need to argue since, forgive my French, the penis isn’t plucked after the intercourse; thus, why would I fight?” she asked.
In her opinion, being cool and mature about the issue as a wife may really rescue it.
Mrs. Asante stated that it all relies on “the way you [wife] handle the man” and “he would not even go [cheat] again”.
“And, I bet you, it will come to a point when you serve him; he will have difficulty eating because he has no idea what I’ll do next,” the counselor told Korku Lumor on Class91.3FM’s morning program on Wednesday, April 5, 2023.
“There’s no need fighting, and that respect must be in the home” , she went on to say.
She also stated that her esteem for a cheating husband would increase if he willingly confessed to his fault.
“If you come to confide in me, as a wife; when you even tell me [you cheated on me], it gives you another level of respect” , she went on to say.
“You, a spouse, a guy on your own; going out to do this and then coming out to inform me? Oh, aren’t you a wonderful husband? Aren’t you a darling?” She praised.
She made a point of saying: “Maybe my stance would be weird but [these] are things we’ve taught people and they have practiced and have really worked; that is what you talk about”.
